Fairness is a quality in life that at times simply is not present with everyone regardless of age or
our position in life. When Fairness appears to have been applied equally, it could be in school,
at play, at work or even at home, a person feels more likely to be motivated to exert themselves
and try harder. When feel they have been treated unfairly, however, they tend to handle it
in other inappropriate ways. They may internalize it or they may lash out with other unethical
actions (bad language, or demonstration of temper). We should address our sense of
unfairness by being able to express (in a respectful manner) why you feel you were treated
unfairly. For example, ask again in a respectful manner why you were treated the way you were. Ask for the opportunity to voice your perspective and to provide reasonable, logical, and non-
emotional responses. Please keep in mind that there may be times when the person in authority
makes a quick decision without thinking it through, so be understanding and allow them the grace
to correct it with respect. You do not have to show that you were right and they were wrong. It may have
been a simple oversight. This could happen to you in the future. This is especially true during
an emergency and quick decisions must be made. Regardless of the circumstances, handle it and
other similar situations, with respect and dignity and always try to put yourself in the shoes of
the other person. Try and learn to see through their eyes. You too need to be fair in how you
handle it.
Discuss this with your parents or other important people in your life and record your
answers.
How do I show my Fairness in my life? Where can I find examples of how to become
fair?
How can being fair help me in my life? (See the situation through other persons eyes,
etc.)
Why is this important to be a fair person now and in the future?
Other thoughts and ideas regarding Fairness?